Your Bedroom Fantasies Can Reveal a Lot About Your Life!

A Sexpert breaks down the most common fantasies and explains what they mean…

YOU WANT TO DOMINATE

THIS is one of the most common sexual fantasies for men and women. If your mind often wanders into scenarios where you are bossing the bedroom, it could signal that you feel taken for granted in your relationship, or not in control of your life.

YOU WANT TO BE DOMINATED

NEARLY 65 percent of women fantasize about being dominated in bed, according to the Journal of Sexual Medicine. Dreaming of being spanked or even taken “against your will” is a sign that you feel overwhelmed by responsibilities in everyday life.

HAVING A THREESOME

A SOCIAL psychologist discovered that the more supporting characters in your sexual fantasy, the more you have a need to be seen and recognized by the world. If there are a lot of people, you crave admiration. If you imagine giving pleasure, you feel you haven’t fulfilled your potential.

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SEX WITH A STRANGER

PICTURING a nameless, faceless partner can be intoxicating because there is no fear of being judged. If you go through life trying to please people or living up to the expectations of others, you’ll probably escape into a world where you can let go.  You can show off your dirtiest desires without caring what they think with a stranger. There’s also no commitment with a stranger, so you are probably yearning for more freedom.

AFFAIR WITH YOUR BOSS

FIFTY-SIX percent of men and 69 percent of women fantasize about having sex with their boss or another authority figure. It suggests you’re craving what your boss represents. For example, you want more power. Or more respect. You know you’ve got more to give the world and you’re scared you won’t get it.

ROMANTIC LOVE-MAKING

Do your fantasies include replaying a passionate movie scene, complete with tender words and silk sheets? You’re likely a big-hearted perfectionist who spends more time in your head than in bed. You might also be scared to show your true personality because you're afraid that your partner may be turned off.