Where Women Don’t Want To Go On A First Date

Where's the best first day place?

Published October 26, 2023

This viral "First Date List" offers a glimpse into what some women might prefer to avoid on a first date. Here's a breakdown of places you should avoid and why it might not be the most ideal setting for a romantic first encounter.

(The full list of Places Women Refuse To Go On A First Date is at the bottom of this article.)

Chain Restaurants (Cheesecake Factory, Applebee's, Chili's, Olive Garden, Red Lobster, etc.)

These restaurants can be noisy and crowded, making conversation difficult. The ambiance might feel impersonal for a first date where getting to know each other is key.

Fast Food Chains (Chipotle, McDonald's, etc.)

While these places can work for a casual lunch date, a first date at a fast-food joint might feel like a low-effort choice.

Movie Theaters & Movie Nights

Dates should be about interaction. Sitting in darkness for a few hours limits conversation and doesn't allow you to connect as much.

Your House or Their House

This can feel too intimate for a first meeting, especially if things don't go well. It's best to meet at a neutral public location for safety and comfort.

Family Functions

Throwing someone into the deep end of meeting your entire family on a first date can be overwhelming for both of you.

Places Focused on Activity (Gym, Bowling, Sporting Events)

While these can be fun dates later on, they can make conversation challenging on a first date.

Places with Loud Music (Nightclubs, Concerts)

Shouting to be heard over loud music isn't conducive to getting to know each other.

Solo Food or Drink Places (Coffee Dates, Ice Cream Dates, Bar Just for Drinks)

Grabbing a coffee or a drink can be a great second-date option, but for a first date, it might feel a little short and leave you wanting more time to connect.